Childless And Moving Onward
A moment comes when the realization hits that this is what it is, yet we don’t want to deal with that reality. We’re feeling all these feelings that are uncomfortable; the pain, the grief, the loneliness. We sit with it all and then, at some point, we wonder “what do I do with this?” and “how do I find meaning?” You can understand the grief AND want to move on while carrying it. This isn’t about squashing the grief - that’s not possible. It’s about moving onward on a new path, creating a fulfilling life and honoring that grief. This podcast delves into the often overlooked but deeply significant experience of living life as a woman who is childless not by choice. There are many ways to reach this point - being childless after infertility is only one road. Often circumstances other than unsuccessful fertility treatments bring us to the point of unwanted childlessness. Whatever your path has been though, your pain and all the other difficult emotions are valid. Now what do you do with it all? Your life doesn’t have to be defined by the pain of childlessness. You create your own narrative. Through candid discussions and personal stories, my podcast offers insights, support, and guidance for navigating this unique path in life and thriving.
Episodes

Tuesday Jan 21, 2025
Tuesday Jan 21, 2025
Explore the importance of personal growth and how it can help with acceptance of childlessness journeys. Gail, a physician, life coach, and speaker, delves into how personal growth—encompassing emotional, mental, and spiritual evolution—can help individuals reshape their lives, find new meaning, and experience joy even in unexpected circumstances.
She emphasizes the importance of small, consistent steps, nurturing meaningful relationships, and focusing on what you can control. Gail also dispels common misconceptions about personal growth, illustrating her points with practical examples and advice.
Key Episode Takeaways:
What is personal growth and why it matters.
How personal growth can help with acceptance of childlessness.
The importance of connections.
Tips on how to start new good habits.
Practical steps on how to start embracing personal growth.
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Tuesday Jan 14, 2025
Tuesday Jan 14, 2025
Discover how to redefine success and worthiness as a childless woman. Host Gail Miller discusses how society tends to tie success to motherhood, but she reminds us that success is how we define it.
Gail gives actionable steps to help redefine goals, embrace non-traditional roles, and find purpose and fulfillment beyond parenthood. Tune in to discover how to cultivate a supportive community and navigate the complex emotions associated with childlessness.
Key Episode Takeaways:
Steps to help you redefine success and worthiness.
Different options on how to find support.
Why support groups are critical in finding worthiness and success as a childless woman.
How to begin to look at success in a holistic view.
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Tuesday Jan 07, 2025
Tuesday Jan 07, 2025
Society often views childless women as “abnormal” or even “selfish”, a judgement that is deeply rooted in pronatalism - the belief that motherhood is a woman’s primary purpose in life. Today, host Gail Miller explores these stereotypes and other microaggressions that childless women face frequently.
She addresses how redefining self-worth and finding fulfillment outside of motherhood is a vital step in overcoming these stigmas and stereotypes. Listen in to find ways to reclaim your power and thrive in life as a childless woman.
Key Episode Takeaways:
The types of stigmas that childless women face.
Examples of microaggressions that childless women experience.
Ways to start to overcome these stigmas.
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Tuesday Dec 31, 2024
Tuesday Dec 31, 2024
Ready to embrace life as a childless woman? Gail Miller, life coach, physician and speaker discusses the importance of finding self-acceptance and fulfillment throughout your unique journey.
In this episode you will learn practical strategies for cultivating self-acceptance and finding purpose beyond motherhood. It is time to embrace your journey and take small steps towards inner peace and fulfillment.
Key Episode Takeaways:
Key steps in the path of self-acceptance.
Ways to cultivate embodied self-compassion.
Strategies to grow and develop your resilience.
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Tuesday Dec 24, 2024
Tuesday Dec 24, 2024
Discover why traditional resolutions often feel overwhelming and are generally ineffective. Host Gail Miller shares alternatives to setting traditional New Year resolutions, like embracing a word for the year and leaning into self-compassion and reflection.
This episode is a heartfelt invitation to reimagine the New Year as a time for self-discovery, emotional renewal, and honoring the path you’re on. Tune in to learn how to approach the New Year in a way that supports your emotional well-being while honoring your unique journey.
Key Episode Takeaways:
Why it’s ok to let go of conventional resolutions.
Alternative approaches to New Year’s resolutions.
Why traditional resolutions can be unhelpful.
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Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
In this episode, discover how to prioritize yourself, communicate with clarity, and plan ahead to protect your emotional well-being. Join host Gail Miller as she dives into the art of setting healthy boundaries during the holidays—a season that can be especially tricky for women who are childless not by choice.
From managing emotional triggers to reclaiming your joy, Gail tackles the challenges of this season head-on with heartfelt advice and practical strategies. This episode is your empowering guide to navigating the holidays with confidence, resilience, and self-compassion.
Key Episode Takeaways:
Boundaries are not selfish.
How to manage emotional triggers that come up.
Boundaries are about honoring yourself and your wellbeing.
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Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
When you are childless not by choice, the holiday season can be an especially challenging time. While this may be a time you sometimes dread, host Gail Miller emphasizes the importance of redefining holiday traditions so that it can be a time that we can find joy in.
Gail shares practical tips like creating an emotional toolkit, hosting a chosen family dinner, or setting up a supportive text thread for holiday events. Tune in to learn how to take back your power, rewrite your holiday narrative, and find moments of peace and meaning amidst the pain of childlessness.
Key Episode Takeaways:
Ways to make the holidays empowering.
Setting boundaries is not selfish.
How to begin to redefine your holiday traditions.
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Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
The holiday season can be an especially triggering and difficult time for childless not by choice women. In this episode, host Gail Miller explores various strategies to navigate these complex times.
She reminds us that all feelings are valid and acknowledging those feelings is a first step in navigating this difficult time of year. Setting boundaries, seeking support and redefining holiday traditions are some ways Gail offers us to make this season more manageable. Join for insights, tips and support to help you thrive during this holiday season.
Key Episode Takeaways:
What disenfranchised grief is.
Acknowledging and accepting all emotions is the first step to navigating difficult times.
Strategies to help navigate the holiday season.
Boundaries are a form of self-respect.
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Tuesday Nov 26, 2024
Tuesday Nov 26, 2024
This time of year is all about finding gratitude in life. That can be especially challenging when you are a woman who is childless not by choice. Host Gail Miller explores the complexities of cultivating gratitude amidst the pain.
The journey of cultivating gratitude is not about toxic positivity but about recognizing the small positives in life. Gail gives us practical steps to help cultivate gratitude, while also acknowledging the hurdles that we may come across. She reminds us that although life is different from what we wished, it can still be meaningful and fulfilling.
Key Episode Takeaways:
Gratitude can be a powerful tool in healing and finding joy.
What benefits you can get from gratitude.
People who practice gratitude are better able to combat stress.
How to cultivate gratitude into your daily life.
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Tuesday Nov 19, 2024
Tuesday Nov 19, 2024
In today’s episode, host Gail Miller explores the challenges faced by women who are childless not by choice during the Thanksgiving season. She discusses how family gatherings can amplify feelings of loss and exclusion, while offering practical strategies for managing emotional triggers, setting boundaries, and seeking solace.
Gail encourages listeners to embrace their emotions, build connections within supportive communities, and consider starting new traditions, such as Friendsgiving. Tune in as she shares valuable insights and tools to help navigate the holiday season with strength and self-compassion.
Key Episode Takeaways:
The holiday season can be an especially difficult time for childless couples.
Tools to help navigate the holiday season and find some joy.
Saying “no” is a healthy boundary.
Join the Support Group
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When Being Childless Isn’t By Choice Facebook Group
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